I am hands down a task-oriented person. Put me in a room of things that need to be alphabetized and I can enjoy myself, easily, for several hours. Give me a room full of people where I get to do nothing but socialize for a couple of hours and I will, easily, be stressed out and trying to figure out how I can turn it into a task so that it is easier for me to process. Many times this is a huge struggle for me, as I live in a people-oriented world and work in a people-oriented field. I like to have a clock in view at all times and struggle when I don't know the passage of time. This is something that I am continually working on. There are times that it is not a problem. Friday night I went out to eat with some friends. We were at the restaurant for 2 1/2 hours. It wasn't until the last 20 minutes that I began to feel antsy. We had finished eating (our task). Usually once this happens, I'm ready to move on to the next thing. But occasionally my brain shifts and I am able to enjoy the conversation (another task?). Don't get me wrong, I can sit and talk for hours, but I have to know that this is what I am supposed to be doing and it has to be with a smaller group of people. I feel like I am not explaining this well. I'm guessing that people-oriented readers don't understand at all. But I think that task-oriented people will probably get it. What about you, my readers, are you task-oriented or people-oriented?
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